
This photograph was posted online by Shanna Niehaus, the mother of five-year-old Kainoa. The caption for it touched thousands of people all around the world to the bottom of their hearts.
“See this moment? I’ve never experienced a moment like this. Yesterday was the first day my 5-year-old autistic son met his new Autism Service Dog, Tornado. We are Americans that live overseas in Japan and have prepared for nearly two years to meet Tornado.
This picture captures the face of a mother who saw her child, who she can’t hug, wash, dress, snuggle, and touch, freely lay on his new service dog of his own free will, with a purposeful, unspoken attachment. This is the face of a mom who has seen her son experience countless failed social interactions on the playground in an attempt to have a friend. Any friend. Any kind of connection. She has sat with her son while he has cried at night for months because he has no consistent connections outside of the family, no matter how hard he tries and no matter what he works hard on in his autism therapies. It doesn’t transfer to the natural occurring world for him. And now she is sitting behind her son silently watching this moment, with the air sucked from her lungs, and no words to say.
It’s worth every fight for services for my son, every diagnosis, every new provider, every dollar spent, every paper filled out, every school meeting, every shed tear, every step forward, every step back, and every wonder of the unknown future. Somehow because of this — because of Tornado — I know everything will be okay. As a mother, I have seen countless challenging and painful moments my son has encountered and cried countless more. Yesterday, however, I cried for a different reason. It is a feeling that is indescribable.”
It’s difficult to imagine what a mother feels when she can’t even hug her own son without risking him having a panic attack. Children with autism find it extremely difficult to establish a connection with those around them. This is why dogs are sometimes specially trained to help them. They can calm a child down when they have a panic attack, look after them, and notify their parents that help is needed. Because dogs behave differently to people, autistic children often find it easier to socialize with them.
Autism is not an illness; it’s a unique form of development. It can’t be “cured” with medicine. But dogs can help the people who experience it overcome some of their difficulties. Their care, devotion, playfulness, and warmth can do so much to help autistic children establish connections with the world around them.
Preview photo credit Love What Matters
Based on materials from Love What Matters
Mandy Maisano
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Beautiful
Pamela Forster
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♡
Florence Liotard Desparmet
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My jrt is helping my young neighbour who has a form of autism
The girl is less shy…
Robert Tomasso
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Mi Amore’ Marcella’s Golden Peyton whom I Love was trained not to lick sometimes I miss kisses could walk him without a leash he Loves me too wish they weren’t so far away
Linda O'brien
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Donna Duxbury x
Linda Reichenberger-Rothe
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Awesome
Brittany Suiter
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I cannot imagine not being able to smooch my babies on a regular basis. Bless you mamas!!! You are so strong.
Lawrence Mersch
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Bill Sieja Barb Klug
Lyn d'Albertanson
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Oh, the unconditional love of a dog.. they deserve so much..not the cruelty we read about from people they want to trust.
Lyn d'Albertanson
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So beautifully put.
Cathy Dance Harmon
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Dogs are the best
Melpi Chalikias
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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Kathie Wagner
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This is SO wonderful for this Mom to experience! It is a major mile stone in both of their lives. Bless them all….
Jean Rusgrove
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So happy for you and your son.
Barb Klug
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Thanks for sharing that Bear❤️. I can imagine the joy in that mother’s heart at that moment.
Chad Smelcer
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Scott Steffa
Scott Steffa
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Thanks Chad Smelcer. Love this!
Debra Clabaugh
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That’s breath taking to see. I hope their bond becomes unbreakable and your son will be able to stretch his own boy boundaries. :).
Jo Baer
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Wonderful, so happy for you and your son.
Melk
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Christina Marie
Pepper Ritchie
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That’s fantastic that’s money well spent this is a great service to be donated too. Dogs are fantastic friends that become family
Suhasini Ramesh
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So beautiful…love bond
Steph O'Grady
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Beautiful dogs! Ours has to have a gentle leader – they are strong dogs and even the best trained ones can pull a person over especially if a person is unsteady on their feet. Just helps.
Cheri Hodge
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Made me cry too for such happiness for this beautiful mom and her young baby boy.dogs are such a blessing in our lives ❤️❤️ I hope your family has many many more days like this one in the picture. God bless you
Justyna Sobiś
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Carly Macey
Donna Duxbury
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jax isnt an assist dog just my baby <3 so good with my boy x
Siddharth Dhairyawan
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Company of dog is always magical and only few lucky people get to enjoy it. I guess they both are very lucky
Shireen Defoggi
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Amazing how truly beautiful dogs souls are, they are angels. I know for a fact, I have two ❤️
Peggy Bauder
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Another reason animals are so amazing!!
Joan DeBry
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I use a gentle leader on my big Golden male. He walks nicely with it on, no pulling.
Will Hans
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Puppies are the best
Vickie Holtz
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Awesome!!!!
Fleur Hogenelst
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Nicole Eggens
Gabryiel Thomas
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Jaz Ortiz
Jane Dean
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Louise Knight
Linda Moore
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Maybe Max needs his own trained therapy dog.Possibly Reggie could be trained ,when he is older.
Mariana Hafner
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Maylu Hafner Cirne
Olha que lindo…
Sarah Mckenna
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Alys Mckenna
Louise Knight
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Loved this x
Dawn Shortliffe
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I agree Cathy Dance Harmon!!
Gwyneth Mccarthy
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Doggies are very special. Beautiful son will be well looked after by Tornado, bless them both ❤️❤️
Andrés Condemarin
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Brittany thought of you guys…
Brittany Noland Melendez
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Love this story so much. Dogs are amazing.
Teresa Garvey Rowe
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Amazing; Thank God for these wonderful animals who can reach autistic children when no one else is able to. This must have been a wonderful moment for this Mom & her son. Bravo Tornado!! You rock❤️
Dawn Waterman
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Wonderful?
Lisa Norwood Burge
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Love this
Kelly Hoyle
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Perfect inside & out ❤️❤️❤️
Faye Reich
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So great
Tammy Taylor
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Joanne Keillor Sarah Keillor
Pat Ford
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i liked this page hoping to see huksy posts. All i see is sob and sappy dog stories. 🙁